What is trauma?

Trauma isn’t just determined by the severity of the event itself. When you have an experience that is distressing and life-threatening, you may not have the capacity to integrate that experience into your brain and body in a way that allows you to process it and move forward. This leaves you in survival mode even when the event is over, and can develop into Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). These are common single-event traumatic experiences that can develop into PTSD:

  • Sexual violence

  • Surviving a natural disaster

  • Severe accidents (transportation, work accidents, etc.)

  • Robbery, home invasion, or any sort of life-threatening attack

  • Medical emergency

  • Sudden loss

  • And more

Symptoms of PTSD are categorized into four parts: intrusive memories (flashbacks and nightmares), avoidance of the traumatic memory, negative changes in your mood, and hyper-arousal (startle response, hyper-vigilance, insomnia, and anxiety).

Complex Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (also known as complex trauma and C-PTSD) involves an exposure to chronic trauma, typically over many years. Often, folks with C-PTSD experienced attachment and relational trauma, and/or were traumatized everyday by their environment. These are common root causes to C-PTSD:

  • Physical, verbal, sexual, and/or emotional abuse from caregivers

  • Material and/or emotional neglect form caregivers

  • Domestic violence

  • Wars, genocide, state violence, and displacement

  • Racism and discrimination on a systemic and interpersonal level

  • Emotional and/or instrumental parentification

  • Chronic medical trauma

  • High-control religions and cults

  • Foster care placement, policing, and family separation

  • Other Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

Symptoms of C-PTSD often include the four parts of single-event PTSD, but also involve a wide-range of additional symptoms such as depression, low-self worth/ shame, emotional dysregulation and mood swings, emotional flashbacks, issues with interpersonal relationships, over-control, hypo-arousal and dissociation, and somatic symptoms. C-PTSD is commonly misdiagnosed as other disorders in the DSM-V-TR, but can be co-morbid with them as well.

Do I have trauma?

Most people have experienced something traumatic in their lives, but that doesn’t mean you are guaranteed to develop a trauma disorder. For some of you, though, life-threatening events and/or chronically distressing environments result in living your life with unhealed trauma. If the information here resonates with you, please know that this isn’t journey you have to go on alone. The antidote to trauma is connection to the self and connection to others. Therapy can provide a space to unravel trauma and begin the work of embodied healing through containment, safety, and support.